By: hotdocmama

hotdocmama — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:23:32 +0000

No, you’re not being a bitch at all. I would say that based on his history, he hasn’t changed then, what makes you think he would change now? All talk and no action is no good. Listen to your feelings. You’re burnt out. Get out of there and start anew. Life is too short.

By: nurse2bjill

nurse2bjill — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:23:32 +0000

tell him that its over, if he cires begs and says it will change, give him a shot, if not just leave. by the way your not being a b!tch

By: ckretdancer

ckretdancer — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:23:32 +0000

Before you give up, try marriage counseling.
US CENSUS. Divorce Per 1,000 Population. http://www.divorcereform.org/03statab.html http://www.divorcereform.org/03statab.html (Table 83, Page 4)

7)About 28% of children under 18 lived with one parent, as of 1998.
Lugaila,Terry. 10% Of All Adult Americans Are Currently Divorced. http://www.divorcereform.org/marstatus.html

No other adults were present of the household for 56% of kids living in a single-parent household.
Lugaila,Terry. 10% Of All Adult Americans Are Currently Divorced. http://www.divorcereform.org/marstatus.html

9)Of the 28%of children under 18 who live with one parent,84% live with their mother.
Lugaila,Terry. 10% Of All Adult Americans Are Currently Divorced. http://www.divorcereform.org/marstatus.html

10)Women are 50% more likely to cheat.
Anatei,Stephanie. Women Are More Likely To Cheat With AGrowing Similarity Between The Two. Softpedia Online Magazine. http://news.softpedia.com/news/Women-Are-More-Likely-to-Cheat-on-Their-Partners-With-the-Growing-Similarity-Between-the-Two-43873.shtml

11) 40% of women cheat on their lovers,compared to 34 % of men.
Peake,Alex. Women Cheat More Than Men : Affairer Sex. http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

12) 34% women fantasize about others .
Peake,Alex. Women Cheat More Than Men : Affairer Sex. http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

13) Women with more than a highschool degree are 1.75% ( 41.75% overall) more likely to cheat.
Peake,Alex. Women Cheat More Than Men : Affairer Sex. http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

14)Individuals of any gender who make more than $30,000 are more likely to cheat.
Peake,Alex. Women Cheat More Than Men : Affairer Sex. http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

15) Divorce has been directly correlated to higher rates of alcoholism, depression, and suicide.
Peake,Alex. Women Cheat More Than Men : Affairer Sex. http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

16) Proffessional women are more likely to cheat.
Peake,Alex. Women Cheat More Than Men : Affairer Sex. http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

17)Proffessional women are less likely to have children.
Peake,Alex. Women Cheat More Than Men : Affairer Sex. http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

18) Proffessional women, if they have children, are more likely to be unhappy about it.
Peake,Alex. Women Cheat More Than Men : Affairer Sex. http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

19) Career women take up 48% of the world workforce.
Peake,Alex. Women Cheat More Than Men : Affairer Sex. http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

20) Only 50% of women who earn at least $27,000 a year have children by age 40.
Peake,Alex. Women Cheat More Than Men : Affairer Sex. http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

21) 81% of men who earn at least $27,000 a year have children by age 40.
Peake,Alex. Women Cheat More Than Men : Affairer Sex. http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

22)Divorce knocks 4 years off of a child’s life .
Waite, Linda G. and Gallagher,Maggie. The Case For Marriage. http://www.smartmarriages.com/case.for.marriage.quiz.html

23)Woman who live with a man are 8% more likely (49.75% overall) to cheat.
Waite, Linda G. and Gallagher,Maggie. The Case For Marriage. http://www.smartmarriages.com/case.for.marriage.quiz.html

24) Alcoholism rates have risen 4.65% in the years 2001-2002, as have divorce rates which,for the same time period, have rose 4.03 %. And it has been proven that there is a direct link to alcoholism and divorce.
Anonymous. American Alcohol Abuse Continues To Rise. Medical News Magazine. 91 (2). Printed June 10th, 2004. http://www.news-medical.net/?id=2343
US CENSUS. Divorce Per 1,000 Population. http://www.divorcereform.org/03statab.html http://www.divorcereform.org/03statab.html (Table 83, Page 4)
Peake,Alex. Women Cheat More Than Men : Affairer Sex. http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

25) One major cause if depression is divorce.
Murray,Bob and Fortinberry, Alicia. Depression Facts and Stats. Posted January 15th,2005. http://www.upliftprogram.com/depression_stats.html

26) Rates of depression rose 7.06% from 3.03 % (10.09% overall) in the time period of 2001-2002.
Parry,Jane. Rise In Depression Rates Over Past Decade. Healthday News.
http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_doc.php?type=news&id=98725&cn=5

27) Suicide kills, on average, 55(per 100,000 ) people per year.
Anonymous. List Of Countries By Suicide Rate. Wikipedia Online. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_suicide_rate.

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By: jenn10274

jenn10274 — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:23:32 +0000

First of all, I don’t feel like you are being a %^&ch! You are just tired of being in this rut, that is easy for him to get over, because you were not the one doing things over and over again. I think that sometimes people can move on with the same person, but it takes counseling both one on one and together. Without that then it is just not going to work. Good Luck! And just maybe being in Iraq did make him wake up and see what is really important in life, who knows.

By: blazegirl

blazegirl — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:23:32 +0000

If it is over just tell him and if you have lost the energy to start over again just say so. Don’t let anyone completely drain you of all your energy. This is not being a bi*** it is just a fact.

By: Dawn R

Dawn R — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:23:32 +0000

I have been seperated from my husband for a year and we are trying to work on things but, I’m not totally sure if it will work. It all depends on your own situation and if you can forgive. I will tell you that trying is hard and can be worth it but don’t loose your self in the process. stick to your guns and if it doesn’t feel right to you trust your feelings. Leave if you can’t.

By: sweet granny 06

sweet granny 06 — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:23:32 +0000

divorce him and you get your kids take care of them